The passing of my grandfather on December 30th brought both sadness and joy to my life. It is never easy to say goodbye to a loved one, but it is made easier by remembering the ways in which they touched your life. And by celebrating theirs.
I am so thankful for the time I had with my grandfather throughout the years, but perhaps the best time we had together was since I've returned from the Philippines these past few months. The most precious moments to us are often defined by the unseen. No one else can witness a moment exactly from our vantage point. That's what makes them so special and unique. Because they are our own.
The love my grandparents have for one another is well-known. But seeing them continue to live through one another, in sickness and in health, is beyond words. Their love is the epitome of what love is, and I will always try to live by their example.
Genuine. Expressive. Emotional. Unwavering. Unconditional.
Love. Share it.
Andrew, I JUST saw the update to your blog of nearly three months ago and was deeply moved by what you shared about Grandpa's passing. You again expressed yourself so beautifully and leave yourself so open to helping others to see things from a different perspective. I guess this really hits me now after losing Gram too and preparing for their celebration of life next week. They have left us with an incredible legacy and now, as you said, it is our place to spread that love that they witnessed to us every day of their lives. Bless you....Mom
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